Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Looking for a Happy and Productive Future?

The school year is coming to an end. It's not just the school year, but the school years that are ending for Marisa. What comes next? We are taking a leap of faith into what other hopeful parents before us have done ... putting their faith into the Consolidated Supports and Services Self-Determination program, a program that is meant to develop a Person Centered Plan.  A Person Centered Plan means that all funding of services is to go toward meeting the needs and goals of an individual. Rather than have funds go to an agency running a program with a pre-set agenda for a group of individuals, the funds are specifically set aside for a specific individual to focus on the goals they want to achieve.

Self Determination is a Medicaid funded program in New York State. As such, those seeking services through CSS (Consolidated Supports and Services) must be Medicaid and HCBS (Home & Community Based Waiver) eligible. Self Determination/CSS is a HCBS Waiver funded program that is  available throughout NYS. Hopefully, the positive outcomes of those using the program here in NY, will help other states to recognize and take interest in developing similar programs in their states. This can only help advance the potential of people with developmental disabilities, which will ultimately lead to many more happier, fulfilling lives.

Many of our adult children with developmental disabilities have talents and potential to contribute to society in meaningful ways. Placing these individuals in Day Habilitation programs will not help these individuals grow in ways that are meaningful to them. Being in a group and following along submissively, does not encourage those involved to think for themselves or develop personal skills that are useful to society. There may be some small contribution to helping out in the community, but it is not in a way that was chosen by the individuals involved. Day Hab provides a place for these individuals to be cared for safely during the day while caregivers are working or personally occupied in other ways. There is nothing wrong with this if that is what the person  is happy with or if they truly need to have all their daily activities decided for them.

However, if you have a child who has hidden talents, goals for their future and ideas of how they would like to live their lives, then take note. Think twice before leaping onto the bandwagon of day habilitation care. If you are willing to take the initiative, invest time and effort and commit to your child's adult development and growth, then self-determination is something to consider. As parents, isn't our job to help our children grow into happy and productive adults?

We all dream, but only those who work hard enough to achieve their dreams may actually achieve them. Isn't that what living is supposed to be about? Don't our children with developmental disabilities have that same right? If capable, shouldn't they too be given a chance at deciding their own future? Marisa will have that chance, so stay tuned for updates as we watch Marisa's dreams unfold.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Guiding Your Teenager with Special Needs through the Transition from School to Adult Life

This is the title of a book I read by Mary Korpi, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and a Vocational Rehabilitation Counselor in Long Island, New York. This book is a wonderful resource for parents. It is full of information on how to guide young adults with developmental disabilities toward a  successful transition into adulthood. Developing autonomy, learning to self-advocate and preparing for the grown-up world of work by building responsibility into your child's routine at an early age and creating incentives and motivation, are all vital aspects of transitioning to adult life. This is all meticulously covered in this well organized book.


From the early years when parents should begin to give a child responsibilities for jobs at home, to the process of transition planning, to the search for programs available once school ends ... it's all here in this very compact book that also includes many other helpful resources for further reading. For parents of newly diagnosed children to those already transitioning out of school, there is something for everyone!